Blog – Myth you are made for

Calling up the myth you are made for

Over a year ago a group of us gathered at UBlossom retreats as facilitators of various workshops: breath, story, creative journaling, social media and more.

In the gathering lodge on Saturday night one of us stretched out across the floor and starting rolling.

Another one of us groaned and followed and pretty soon there were five of us rolling across the floor giggling and breathing and letting the weight of our body melt into the board beneath us, massaging our spine and out shoulders.

When we sat up we landed deep into a diverse conversation about our understanding of God. And let me tell you, it was a broad swath of a story.

One person is a Jesus follower, another Stardust, another Story, another Creator, and still another, the Universe. And there we were talking about our businesses, our revenue streams, our goals and manifestations and our relationships, all through the lens of our very unique interpretations and experiences of God.

Might I mention, we ate cheesies, drank wine and pulled chocolate out of our pockets.

At the next retreat, it happened again, except this time in a cabin by the fire talking about patriarchy, what is personal power, how to read scripture, poetry, what is prayer, and kegals (yes – the vaginal floor kind). Again, with so much laughter and depth in all the same moments.

And tears. I was just going through a break-up and my heart felt like it had been ripped out of my chest.

Since then we’ve been gathering in a private online group to support each other, to pray into each other, share entrepreneurial clarity, and to reflect about our energetic hits on certain decisions we’ve made. We’re a circle.

And this year we’ve decided to meet on purpose as a wisdom circle for each other.

We met this weekend at my little cabin by the sea. Out of the weekend came a message for me: ‘Calling up the Myth you are Made For’.

It was un-mistakeable like a direction, so that is what I will continue to do…

…Only this year – it has become the focus of my impact.

In times of great global change, it’s who we are at the core of our making which is called upon.

All of our painful and exquisite experiences has made us.

It’s part of the myth of us.

Imagine if you lived your life in the grit and greatness of your myth. What then? 


Tina Overbury is a core-communications specialist who works with individuals and organizations who feel called. She is a storyteller, performer, and a professional listener who works with narrative and story structure as a vehicle for human connection. Her work is rooted in Myth, Mysticism, and the practice of personal faith. She brings thirty years of collaborative storytelling in theatre, film, marketing, team based selling, and workshop facilitation. She is the founder of Live Your Best Story, a weekend retreat of deep listening held on Bowen Island, BC, Canada and is the voice and story behind TinaOLife, home to Story Stones, TinaO’s weekly online gathering of listening in to sacred stories. Tina is a proud associate of PowHERhouse media where she listens and supports the ‘stories’ of whole and integrated leaders of tomorrow. 

If you would like to know more about Tina’s approach to story, click here

Audio- #3 Story from the car- Value

These stories from the car are a listening in to one particular word we really want to dive into and today the word is VALUE.

Truthfully, I get hits on things when a word just rumbles in and doesn’t want to leave me.

So this word of value is what I invite us into today.

Even as I say value, it seems kind of mundane. Kind of boring. I have this box of chicken strips and two tubes of ground beef in the back of my car, and I am fortunate enough during this pandemic that the local pub has agreed to place orders on behalf of us islanders to offset the pressure on the general store, but also to keep us from having to go into the city to shop.

That is value. 

But I’m also a single mom to three kids and I need to get value for my money. That’s a different kind of value. But it’s always an in and an out. Isn’t it? 

Or is it?



Tina Overbury is a core-communications specialist who works with individuals and organizations who feel called. She is a storyteller, performer, and a professional listener who works with narrative and story structure as a vehicle for human connection. Her work is rooted in Myth, Mysticism, and the practice of personal faith. She brings thirty years of collaborative storytelling in theatre, film, marketing, team based selling, and workshop facilitation. She is the founder of Live Your Best Story, a weekend retreat of deep listening held on Bowen Island, BC, Canada and is the voice and story behind TinaOLife, home to Story Stones, TinaO’s online gathering of listening in to sacred stories. Tina is a proud associate of PowHERhouse media where she listens and supports the ‘stories’ of whole and integrated leaders of tomorrow. 

If you would like to know more about Tina’s approach to story, click here

Blog-Not Anymore

I usually tear out of my house in the morning as I run for the ferry. Yes, I admit, I’m one of those women who is a panic to get out of the house. I’m not saying that men aren’t like that too, I’m just noting I haven’t met one. Honestly, I’m a bit of a thrasher – or have been.

Transitions are hard for me and as I get older and accumulate more endings and beginnings I’ve noticed a prickliness, like electric barbs shooting through me and around me when I come home, and when I leave. Gathering my things as I leave the house triggers feelings of not belonging. I have been forever ‘gathering my things…’ When I travel, the placing of my bag by the door, the loading of stuff into the car, as I touch my phone, my passport, my keys, my wallet check check check. Triple check check check. The hugs to whomever is or isn’t sending me off sets off tears. I shake a little as I say good bye and walk on the boat.

But then as soon as I’ve left, I’m free.

This morning as I was prepping to leave the house, the light not yet full in the sky… warning of a storm coming and ‘better watch the ferry announcements’ in case I can’t get home, then this view… I had to stop, and look.

I’ve made a decision this year, for 2020 to close the cycle of panic when I transition. To let doors close and open with less friction, to soothe the sparks as they light up in me when I step out or step in, and I think this pic is how it started.

I’m pretty sure I’ve yelled at my kids every day I come home, and I’m a super reasonable mom. Like the kinda mom people judge because I’m too damn ‘permissive’ but let me tell you, when I’m walking in the door at the end of the day and the dishes aren’t done, the dog has eaten a tub of cookies off the counter and I’ve tripped over four sets of shoes at the door, let me tell you, I go from zero to f*ck you in less time than I can blink.

But it’s not the dishes, or dog or shoes fault (tho that is blast worthy), it is the pain of not being welcomed, or feeling received, of transitions, of walking these particular moments alone that are the culprit.

It has been a pain point for me.

And it had become unconscious and reactive.

Not anymore.


Tina Overbury is a core-communications specialist who works with individuals and organizations who feel called. She is a storyteller, performer, and a professional listener who works with narrative and story structure as a vehicle for human connection. Her work is rooted in Myth, Mysticism, and the practice of personal faith. She brings thirty years of collaborative storytelling in theatre, film, marketing, team based selling, and workshop facilitation. She is the founder of Live Your Best Story, a weekend retreat of deep listening held on Bowen Island, BC, Canada and is the voice and story behind TinaOLife, home to Story Stones, TinaO’s weekly online gathering of listening in to sacred stories. Tina is a proud associate of PowHERhouse media where she listens and supports the ‘stories’ of whole and integrated leaders of tomorrow. 

If you would like to know more about Tina’s approach to story, click here


Audio-#2 Story from the Car- Our Spiritual Home

I’m talking about our sacred home. That’s what I’m saying. It’s where we feel rested. Where our whole self can be seen and known and heard and, we have an experience of belonging. 

We are so well versed these days and beautifully so, richly so, in our individuation. We are resourced with who we are as individuals and owning it. We know that ultimately we are  responsible. For everything. Like everything. 

Our happiness.

Our mindset.

Our results.

Our well-being.

Our success.

We are damn responsible.

And all of it is true.

We live in a human body.

No one gets to determine our thoughts but us.

No one gets to work with our feelings but us.

No one deals with our impulse control but us…
That is true.

It is all true.

Annnnnd and and and and and and and on this very human plane, we still yearn…

Tina Overbury is a core-communications specialist who works with individuals and organizations who feel called. She is a storyteller, performer, and a professional listener who works with narrative and story structure as a vehicle for human connection. Her work is rooted in Myth, Mysticism, and the practice of personal faith. She brings thirty years of collaborative storytelling in theatre, film, marketing, team based selling, and workshop facilitation. She is the founder of Live Your Best Story, a weekend retreat of deep listening held on Bowen Island, BC, Canada and is the voice and story behind TinaOLife, home to Story Stones, TinaO’s online gathering of listening in to sacred stories. Tina is a proud associate of PowHERhouse media where she listens and supports the ‘stories’ of whole and integrated leaders of tomorrow. 

If you would like to know more about Tina’s approach to story, click here