Beauty School Drop Out- TinaO’s Story Hits #2

Listen to TinaO read this poem here.

Weathered

Cold

shivering

wet 

weathered

Yes, and more yes, 

Throw me outside 

just so I can come back in

cold to warm

wet to dry

planned to unplanned

I’m made 

for living

with just enough discomfort 

I can bite it

But I eat everything

even my hair

Don’t be that person who fixes my face

adjusts 

the rogue wisp 

from my cheek

my chin

or across my eyes.

That will never work

When we stepped off the porch and into the snow

I thought for sure,

today.

today.

today.

We had earned it.

We could talk about our future. 

Truth telling is exquisite-ly painful

excruciating-ly beautiful

when

it’s 

left

raw

and unchanged

to breathe

I thought we were weathered enough,

leathered,

and ready

for my career melt-down

I was wrong

‘They’re not going to write Here Lies the Lipstick Lady on your tombstone’

He said

‘Well they fuckin’ should…’ 

My teeth were buzzing…

‘I mean, that’s what I do…’

I said

I imagine my eye-teeth, 

molars

dropping off my face

and disappearing in the snow

with the words 

apparently

I shouldn’t say:

This 

is 

Not

Who

am

Crunch

The snow is so dry 

like my mouth

Maybe I should kick off my boots

and walk barefoot 

back to the cabin

it’s minus eighteen

and unthinkable

But so is this

We’ve had this fight before

Look, 

I’m not 

the: 

Where’s your coat?

Not those socks?

Did you pack an umbrella

Don’t forget your sweater

Oh, and that long sleeve

and bug spray

Tell me those aren’t the only shoes you brought…

And why are you wearing a dress?

Don’t you know the weather can change at any minute?

Yes.

Yes I do. 

Weathered women don’t become lipstick ladies

and if they do

they lick their lips 

‘til they’re chapped

Listen to the poem ready by TinaO here. 

Story Hit #2- Beauty School Drop Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaMuv3cBq6g&t=7s
What was I thinking?-2013

Story Hit #2 Cont’d-Beauty School Detox

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqnMcvENRKw
With Andrea Wray- 2014

These videos were pre-career change. They were who I had become, and not who I have always been. I share these with you to close one story and open another.

This year on December 25th, which is both Christmas Day and my 50th Birthday, I am stepping into a new story…

and I know what I know what I know about how stories work:

Stories won’t let go of you until they’ve been fully heard.

This is release #2 of sixteen weeks of Story Hits (vlog) from as far back as 2013. Some are my favourites, some are yours. If you missed week #1, you can start at the beginning with: Out of the Water here. 

This is release #2 – Beauty School Drop Out. You can carry on to release #3 – Hold on to What You Know here.

I will be writing more about these moments in both my upcoming book: STORY STONES (coming fall 2021, and in my one woman show: O MY GOD (touring spring 2021).

On my 50th Birthday, if you’re on my VIP list, I’ll be sending you 50 Days of Christmas Story Gifts from Dec. 25th to February 12th. If you want some story goodness filled with sneak peeks into the creation and rehearsal process, plus be able to pre-order the book, and order tickets to the show, click here and the let the gifting begin! (You’ll get a bunch of cool story right away)

I have to close one story to open another. 

Thank you for listening.

xT

Tina Overbury is a core-communications specialist who works with individuals and organizations who feel called. She is a storyteller, performer, and a professional listener who works with narrative and story structure as a vehicle for human connection. Her work is rooted in Myth, Mysticism, and the practice of personal faith. She brings thirty years of collaborative storytelling in theatre, film, marketing, team based selling, and workshop facilitation. She is the founder of Live Your Best Story, a weekend retreat of deep listening held on Bowen Island, BC, Canada and is the voice and story behind TinaOLife, home to Story Stones, TinaO’s online gathering of listening in to sacred stories. Tina is a proud associate of PowHERhouse media where she listens and supports the ‘stories’ of whole and integrated leaders of tomorrow.

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